Posts Tagged: dating

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Aug 10

Friends and Dating

He was your first love-the boy from your hometown. One day, while visiting your parents, you decide to do a little shopping at Abercrombie’s. You turn a corner and run right into him! After brushing yourselves off and a little good-natured laughter, you realize it has been a long time, but seems like only yesterday.
Stop. Renew the acquaintance, if you are so inclined, but when it comes to old friends and dating, it is easy to become blind-sided by rose-colored glasses of nostalgia, and allow yourself to be carried away by the romance, coincidence, and novelty of the situation.

After catching up on old time scenarios, you may want to discuss each other’s current lives.

Ask him/her the following questions:

  • What has he been doing in the interim?
  • Have there been any big changes in his life?
  • Is he currently involved in a serious relationship?

Now, ask yourself these questions:

  • Why did you and this former love break up?
  • Did you walk away, or did the other person end the relationship?
  • It takes days or sometimes even months before a person gets emotionally healed and finally moves on in life
  • Has the other person’s physical appearance changed? In what way?
  • How have you, yourself changed in the interim?

Has he/she been married or involved in a serious romance? If so, how did this relationship end? Are there children involved? Is he/she richer/poorer, better-looking/worse for wear, healthier, less healthy, more optimistic/less optimistic.

Is the chemistry still there? Have you been carrying a torch for this person? Is this a person that you just could not stop thinking of? Did you have feelings that were not reciprocated? Are you long-lost loves, or just two people who drifted away from each other?
Normally, there is a certain anticipation and excitement when we first begin dating a person; you find out about each other’s lives and get to know each other. You each put your “best foot forward,” and attempt to create a certain impression. However, you two are past that point-you already know each other-or do you? Depending upon how much time has passed, there is a certain amount of history that represents an unknown quantity. Everything we do, and every experience we have in life, alters us and changes our perspective in some way.

Remember, serendipity encounters do sometimes lead to life-changing relationships, but do not allow yourself to float away on a wave of nostalgia. A chance meeting does not necessarily signify a renewed love that will endure forever.

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12
Jul 10

How to Talk to Hot Girls

If you are looking into finding that special someone but you don’t want it be just anyone then follow these simple steps. You will then know how to get a hot girlfriend.

First you will need to know that gorgeous girls know that they are hot so they are used to guys all over them. To get their attention you need to play like you don’t really care if they give you their number or not. Approaching girls that are hot is not that easy because they know you know they are hot but if you are nonchalant about it they may become more attracted to you. You should flirt with them and listen to them but don’t ask for their number. Another thing you will want to do is leave while she is still having fun being with you. If you see that she is disappointed then you can get her number.

Some other tips that might help are become successful in your career. Girls like ambition in a guy. Be comfortable with you are. Women like it when you know who and what you are and they like it when a guy is passionate about something. Remember to just relax and be yourself. Most women like it when you are yourself. Another thing to consider is being subtle when you approach her. First observe her, see what she’s wearing. What’s she is wearing will tell you a lot about her personality. Also timing plays a factor. Some women might be busy or in a hurry so watch to see if they look like they have to leave. Be sensitive to her needs. A woman likes it when a guy cares about the world and people around him. They don’t like it when a guy only cares about himself and material things.

If you don’t know where to find that hot girl, you might want to try the gym. These types of girls like to stay physically in shape so you’re more likely to find them in a gym then any place else.

So if you want to have a hot girlfriend then follow these steps and you’ll be on your way to not being single anymore.

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Jun 10

Tips for finding True Love

It’s never easy when all your friends are married and you’re the only one who is single. Sometimes even a date can be trouble enough to find, let alone someone who might be your true love. The fact is that dating can be a numbers game so you’ll do yourself a favour by meeting as many people as possible. Of course that’s easier said than done, but here are some easy tips to help you improve the odds of finding a date.

If you find yourself spending weekends alone while your friends party it up with their partners, you might have to look to yourself and see what you need to change. In some cases, a makeover might be in order to improve your appearance and update your fashion a little. You don’t have to spend thousands of dollars on fancy clothes, but buying newer version of old standard is a great way to give yourself a little boost. You might find you carry yourself differently, and that is what will draw other people to you. If necessary, you can also think about a change in hairstyle and maybe even a trip to the health spa. Every little bit helps and if nothing else, this bit of pampering will make you feel better about your appearance and give you a new positive outlook on the possibilities of finding true love.

When you’ve gotten yourself together, it’s time to go out and meet people. It won’t take any type of magic or love spells, but rather simple practicality. So try every avenue that you’re comfortable with to improve the odds. You can join a gym to meet people, or even ask your friends and family to set you up on dates. If you find that to be too embarrassing, then consider taking a few classes in subjects that you’re interested in. Any place where you can meet like-minded individuals will offer great opportunities to meet more people. And before you know it, the numbers will add up and you’ll eventually find a great person to spend time with who just might be your soulmate.

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Jun 10

Dating Tips: Guys to Stay Away From

Every woman dreams of meeting their fantasy guy who will sweep them off their feet. But in the real world, many women usually have to go through a lot of unsuitable guys before they can find Mr. Right. Some women will even encounter some outright creeps in their journey to find romance. It may take some time before you figure out if a guy is right for you, but it doesn’t have to. Most people aren’t that great at hiding their flaws and if you’re observant enough you can tell if a guy is trouble from the start.

Why do some men seem to put on such a good show? In truth, they probably aren’t really all that tricky. It’s more that women will often ignore their natural instincts and continue seeing a guy even if she knows he’s no good. Some women will stay with a man long after she should be looking for divorce advice. But you have to willing to be alone if it means the alternative is being with a jerk.

One thing to watch out for is men who are too pushy. They don’t take no for an answer, even when it comes to the little things. When done in small doses, that can be challenging and flirty. But if a guy does it too much, you will definitely notice and your instincts should kick in. If this happens, then you should move on because it is unlikely that you have found your one and only sweetie.

In general you want to avoid the guys who are too good to be true. They may be full of sweet talk and promise you that you are his everlasting soulmate. But be realistic and be careful. Assess the situation and realize where you are in life. There is no reason to rush into anything with a guy who can’t live up to his promises. The best love comes naturally and you can’t force it. So if you sense it’s not there, don’t hang on to an unsuitable guy in hopes that it will change.